I am not judging, you have every right to use your assets to get what you want in your life, its just typical story about a Chinese girl being toyed around like a whore in the i-bank industry. I see this every single day working in a i-bank, i have even seen filipino helper come up to our office asking for money because one of the partner fucked her the night before. The problem i have with you is a child is not your asset, how could you have this mind-set to have a child to help you get what you want?? This is just cruel, you want your child to have a 55+ years old father? This is just pure selfishness!! I see a lot of people here showing sympathy, but you brought all these to yourself, from that 3P experience to that contract deal...you got what you deserved. I hope these regrets will live with you forever. Selfish whore