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原帖由 Nelsonboy 於 2010-1-19 09:01 AM 發表
totally agree with Raytracing!! We are very smart in creating excuses to ourselves in betraying another half. People now are too well educated and able to create rationals to rationalise their mista ...
i'll just quote the girl 3 posts above me " 真的,只有經歷過,才會明白!"
i don't think anyone willingly paint themselves into these kinds of triangular relationship where 3 parties put emotions in. it's painful for everyone in it even the seemingly happy times and the "beneficiary".
the wife obviously will be hurt and disappointed and betrayed.
the husband is torn between the two women and the guilt of betrayal when he gets home and sees his wife. and feels painful at not being able to offer the other girl a better situation
the other woman gets devastated that the man she loves is married and she can't wish for a future. (or if she is more selfish, i guess she can wish and ask, but she gets more devastated that he never makes a decision and their divorce never materialize. and she feels so alone whenever he leaves because he isn't truly "hers")