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原帖由 wannabe 於 2009-7-7 05:22 PM 發表
i get your drift, dear
and its never easy to stand up again
you need determination and courage as well as support from external forces like family and friends too
whether you think or no ...
Support from friends is important I know
But I do'nt like it and I actively cut down that LOL
No more real life friends contact for 3 months for me.
Drugs has its usage. It cures the chemical one. Otherwise, doctor won't spend money and resources on researching them
Perhaps your case is more like mental problem ( not the chemical driven one ).
Back to your point 1.
1. Time can let you think about yourself deeply, understand yourself deeply and get over it. It's like puzzle solving, consider like a math problem. You can stuck by a math problem and you can't have any solution, you are working hard into it for the question. One day, youmay realize that you don't need to solve that solution and walk away to the normal life.
2. Time can make your forgot. Even you said memory is printed, I agree. It's hard to forgot somehow. With time, memory will be faded out a bit, if not, with new joy/friends whatever positive memory, they can somehow rewrite on top of the bad one.
I heard, no experience, when one loses love, finding another new gf/bf can cure quickly. That's another story as it involves chemical reaction between boy and girl
But the feedback mechanism inside our brain is similar
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