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原帖由 chefung 於 2009-7-7 04:50 PM 發表
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It's not easy to get out from the hole yourself to be honest
And I meant "very sad"
Not simple failure like fail the quiz in class, losing the wallet, etc
Something big to the person
Like in a car accident that all of your family dies except you with broken legs/hands or so
I wonder how many people can survive and stand up again in this kind of tragedy
i get your drift, dear
and its never easy to stand up again
you need determination and courage as well as support from external forces like family and friends too
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And usually it involves some chemcial inbalance inside your brain as well
I do'nt know why that is triggered but it's common, consider some psycho.
And the time function is
1. People need time to think. Consider yourself Bebe, you got some sadmemory as well (everyone has too), can you accept and stand up at themoment you heard the bad news or so? You still need time to stand up.Long or short, depends on people. So, saying time is one of thesolution is not that wrong.
2. Chemical inbalance may be cured LOL. I don't know, by drugs or naturally
whether you think or not, time still moves forward regardless and memory or history is sth always printed in the mind that it won't change along with time ... so how does time help in this circumstance?
by the way, drug is not gonna help either (experience talk cause i did live depenedent on anti-depressive pills for a while) unless you abuse it