to sexy bozz
if he had proposed to u, u should go for it.
reason hk society is really warped, is your own ultimate happiness, is easy for others using society value to impose on u anyways.
As human beings
we have ID, EGO & SUPEREGO
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Id,_ego,_and_super-ego
u can look up here, u are denying yourself any pleasure and put on a face for others to praise.
Is no different than the feeling of doing a good job is similar to peeing inside your pants , u get a warm feeling inside but nobody knows!
then why u work so hard day in day out, u doing this to trade $ so u can enjoy.
What are your odds as meeting someone your age? Probably u'll meet someone 10-15 yrs your senior.