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原帖由 blue_rosey 於 2009-8-5 09:03 PM 發表
yeah.. i'm seeing a guy with intimacy-phobia... ~.~
it's pretty frustrating when he subconsciously block out any kind of emotional connection.
but i guess we agreed from the beginning that we ...
yeah it's very sad for the boy indeed. it's very hard to crack that wall that he built around his heart cos it is there to block out any possible threats, but also blocks out all touches that tries to reach it.
u just have to give it a lot of time and patient, dont rush things cos if the sex happens before it should, things would never be the same.
i'd love to talk about it with you if u want to talk about this boy u are seeing, i too want to know others who also suffer intimacyphobia and how they cope with things. my msn is
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