Shaliz

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原帖由 tommyyun 於 10/8/2009 02:23 發表
我第一次clubbing就識了我既ons,她教左我好多野........................如D男士點向佢進攻,.................咁la

佢又係話佢出黎識朋友但次次都帶有fd走so 我以為都其他女仔都....................

so我誤會 ...

你甘"好彩"第1次就有ons啦    你估个个女仔都系甘mei 好少女仔接受到ons
人地可能系想識d有benefits既朋友嘞

Shaliz

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原帖由 tommyyun 於 10/8/2009 01:58 發表


咁你又會點做??教我識女仔既人係我既ons,都係咁教我ar......................................

我好安份gar wor.... 正系跳舞同饮酒

Shaliz

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原帖由 芯雪 於 10/8/2009 04:35 發表

果次真係最不愉快既經歷
之前都冇比人問過ons=_=
問都算喇, 我都rejected左佢, 仲死要想拉我上的士
好在死都唔就範:smile_o03:

哇 o甘狼gar!
问到出口都好desparate姐 人地要跟佢走就自然会走gar啦
无其他人帮你mei?

kingpost

I understand Mr Yun's key points .....
If the girl totally had no interest in making frds with him ... then why she still took the offer? Better just simply rejected him in a friendly manner!
If she took his offer and had a drink with him  without much communications or interaction ... or even just took the drinks and left  .... this behaviour is  considered as "cheating for drinks"!

Shaliz

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原帖由 kingpost 於 10/8/2009 11:03 發表
I understand Mr Yun's key points .....
If the girl totally had no interest in making frds with him ... then why she still took the offer? Better just simply rejected him in a friendly manner!
If she ...

i agree with you that a gal shouldn't take up an offer if she's not interested
but some gals r very realistic...she thinks she's given you "a glass of drink" time to get to know her
and if you fail to impress her during that glass of drink...she leaves...as simple as that
some of them are so up themself that they forget all their basic manners

kingpost

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原帖由 Shaliz 於 2009-8-10 11:25 AM 發表


i agree with you that a gal shouldn't take up an offer if she's not interested
but some gals r very realistic...she thinks she's given you "a glass of drink" time to get to know her
and if you f ...

I think it really depends on the situation at that moment ... what guys usually do is to appraoch the girl in a nice and friendly manner ... open a dialogue and have a few chat before offering her a drinks!

If this is the flow ... then the girl will seldom just take the drinks and leave!

However, if the guy just randomly pick a girl at the bar and offer her a drink without any conversation (at least self-introduction and a few friendly conversation) prior to that ....
and if the girl still took the offer then left as what Mr Yun had experenced ...i think this is really "cheating for drinks"! .... but somehow we may think that the guy is playing a wrong strategy ... just wasting money or even a bit stupid!

Shaliz

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原帖由 kingpost 於 10/8/2009 12:50 發表


I think it really depends on the situation at that moment ... what guys usually do is to appraoch the girl in a nice and friendly manner ... open a dialogue and have a few chat before offering her ...

hahaha yes yes...the first approach will be the appropriate one...

a guy once offered me HIS drink on the dancefloor, which i kindly rejected...but he then tried to force it down my throat...i practically ran away and avoided him for the rest of the night.

iloveyou123

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原帖由 Shaliz 於 2009-8-10 01:36 AM 發表
真系有男仔clubbing正系想識下女仔 keep in contact?
希望我有一日遇到啦~

备人死纏真系好惨.....试过比2个“高人”围住 （本人好矮）好彩朋友将我拉番出黎

clubbing唔係俾個機會大家識下對方咩~~
搵下d岩咀形ma~~~

芯雪

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原帖由 Shaliz 於 2009-8-10 10:57 AM 發表


哇 o甘狼gar!
问到出口都好desparate姐 人地要跟佢走就自然会走gar啦
无其他人帮你mei?

冇= =果日剩係我同我個fd兩個人去

iloveyou123

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原帖由 芯雪 於 2009-8-10 04:35 AM 發表

果次真係最不愉快既經歷
之前都冇比人問過ons=_=
問都算喇, 我都rejected左佢, 仲死要想拉我上的士
好在死都唔就範:smile_o03:

咁狼死都有....
不過唔知係clubbing會唔會識得到多d異性朋友呢.....
未去過的...