blue_rosey

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原帖由 wannabe 於 2009-4-3 07:47 PM 發表 does it mean u get better as u become older :smile_41:

doesn't necessarily mean i got better, just mean i got bigger and my lungs are bigger so can hold out more air, so even if the problem arise, it's not apparent/noticeable... unless it gets really serious.  

chefung

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原帖由 wannabe 於 2009-4-3 07:40 PM 發表

It seems it took a long time for this thing to develop
Had tried to resolve it in the middle ?

blue_rosey

how did you find out he has been infidel? and what's your stand on it...? is he still doing it...?

why don't you (you guys?) cook? (cooking is quite fun to do together, imo)  or why don't you spend some time together, watch some movies etc like he suggested...?

wannabe

we've been separating for almost 1 yr n since separated he's moved in with another gal

in fact he never say yes to the divorce as he wanna keep both ... he cant let go either one

seriously i didnt even think he would betray me until i found some photos one day
we were like normal sweet couple kissing n hugging each day ... we exchanged gifts every single month since 3 yrs ago without any breaks ... everything was juz fine in my eyes

blue_rosey

if you want to save the marriage and forgive him, why separate?

it seems like it'll pull you guys further apart.

(sorry, brb, dinner. )

wannabe

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原帖由 chefung 於 2009-4-3 07:52 PM 發表

we (he, i and the gal) sat down n chatted abt the whole situation for three times
according to wat he said, he had issues with me for 6 mths ... he was unhappy but chose not to discuss with me so i had no idea at all
somehow the gal broke up with her boyfriend around the same time n the two got together finally

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wannabe

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原帖由 blue_rosey 於 2009-4-3 07:59 PM 發表
how did you find out he has been infidel? and what's your stand on it...? is he still doing it...?

why don't you (you guys?) cook? (cooking is quite fun to do together, imo)  or why don't you spend some time together, watch some movies etc like he suggested...?

evidence - photos, unusual ones ...
my stand - i asked him to leave her, but he insisted to keep both ... day time with her (same office) n nite time with me
why not cook? why dun go movie? - i dun like perhaps ... anyway i accepted it was my fault to the end of this relationship so i did change myself ... learnt cooking n cooked three 3 meals for him everyday ... ... but it seems all too late for me ... he has developed a true relationship with the gal ... he simply cant let her go

chefung

I should be silent then...
Cant insert a word

BTW, my roommate is still missing
Will there be any accident to him?
I don't have any phone call from him though

wannabe

i forgave him for a long time ... i even beg him (with kneel down) to leave her but it was no use ... he couldnt make his decision between the two women n we all suffered ... after 4-5 mth struggle, i gave up ... despite my feelings of love, as long as he was happy, i was ok to let him go ... at least one of us would be happy n tat was good enough for me anyway

wannabe

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原帖由 chefung 於 2009-4-3 08:20 PM 發表
I should be silent then...
Cant insert a word

BTW, my roommate is still missing
Will there be any accident to him?
I don't have any phone call from him though

see! its ur fault to keep asking for stories

wat da? u dont hv his contact number? are u guys realli roommates? :smile_27:
well i guess nothing much u can do execpt pray for him

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