uhadmeathello

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原帖由 macy18 於 2008-12-10 19:39 發表


i wouldn't be whinning here about my promotion if i did
he did hinted about the benefits though

well, he's still bothering me
but it's ok. i've made myself clear enough

if you can document it, tell HR when it happens next time.  he will not go near you ever.

big coporate are very serious about this thing here in US.  we have sexual harassment class to remind everybody almost every year.   :smile_19:   :smile_19:

macy18

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原帖由 chefung 於 2008-12-11 11:42 AM 發表


Oh now, how many friends do you have? how many relatives do you have?
Judging by special cases is not good.
Also, having a reliable marriage/ or divorse in the other way has nothing to be relate ...

all these dramas happened around cheating ... fair enough?

uhadmeathello

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原帖由 chefung 於 2008-12-10 19:43 發表

You may end up of losing your job.
Kind of dilemma. Dignity + Justice vs Job + Security

sounds like Macy is working in some big firm.  women always win in this case.   :smile_19:

macy18

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原帖由 uhadmeathello 於 2008-12-11 11:43 AM 發表


if you can document it, tell HR when it happens next time.  he will not go near you ever.

big coporate are very serious about this thing here in US.  we have sexual harassment class to remind e ...

i know about that la... don't worry
he can't take advantage of me as i've been ignoring him

to a certain extend i am tolerating it
but i know how to protect myself as well
those gwai lo are just digusting...

chefung

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原帖由 uhadmeathello 於 2008-12-11 11:45 AM 發表


sounds like Macy is working in some big firm.  women always win in this case.   :smile_19:

Oh, he just had verbal harassment? I am not sure how it works. Winning percentage?

uhadmeathello

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原帖由 macy18 於 2008-12-10 19:37 發表



is it me being pessimistic or what?

2 of my immediate family members (mum's brother and sister) are divorced...
a fd's uncle (in a super catholic family) has a second wife and two sons... he ...

you know, the moral standard didn't crumble overnight.   hate to admit, we have gone too far as a society to turn back now, it will only get worse.   :smile_19:

macy18

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原帖由 uhadmeathello 於 2008-12-11 11:45 AM 發表


sounds like Macy is working in some big firm.  women always win in this case.   :smile_19:

it's not whether i can prove it
it's more whether i want to get to that stage
there's just too much of this kind of shit happening in this industry
no feeling anymore
it's more like you know they do it - so you know how to avoid it if you don't need to be promoted that way...

uhadmeathello

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原帖由 chefung 於 2008-12-10 19:48 發表


Oh, he just had verbal harassment? I am not sure how it works. Winning percentage?

you never sit in one of those class, have you.  women do have unfair advantage if they try to set you up.  so be careful chef.  

next time, a girl flirt with you, don't think it's your lucky day      

uhadmeathello

got to go.   

bye macy.

bye chef.

nice chatting with you  

macy18

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原帖由 chefung 於 2008-12-11 11:48 AM 發表


Oh, he just had verbal harassment? I am not sure how it works. Winning percentage?

well, you want the details?
LOL
if you work in this industy, esp under male bosses, you won't be surprised to see how many female workers are doing the same thing
hell don't work for a woman after this... BIG trouble...