jerrychau

I guess when you are young, you only think with the small head. Not your big head. You should take you action try to see her and talk it over with her. Not just we finish. Next time ask first okay !

blue_rosey

word. i want to know what happened afterward.
You didn't just leave her alone and never find her again, right?  coz even if you made a mistake, she was still your gf.... she'd think you only date her for sex if you never contact her after that.  :smile_35:

ayusdream

maybe i know u :smile_35:

blue_rosey

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原帖由 ayusdream 於 2009-3-21 09:53 AM 發表 maybe i know u :smile_35:

are you the girl in the story? 

milo99

i'm sure she got over it cause she didn't sue u right!?!?

how long ago was this??

kevinkwank

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原帖由 四十歲退休 於 2009-3-20 05:50 PM 發表
what did you do to apologize after she left?  or you just let go?

at the moment she left the room, i cried...
I didn't know we would end up like that, and I always wanted to talk to her, but she turned me down...

"You raped me.  I would never marry a rapist and I will never forget it", she cries...

That image keeps on repeating in my mind... even now...

kevinkwank

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原帖由 blue_rosey 於 2009-3-20 06:12 PM 發表
I would comfort you, but you're not the girl... it seems like she is the one who needs comforting. :smile_35:

Anyways, I am sure you just want to let it out of your system.  I hope you fe ...

Honestly, I do not deserve any comforting...

Btw... I have read about your other three posts, and I am very impressed.  

I have been browsing around in this forum lately, but didn't respond to anything since I wasn't registered.

kevinkwank

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原帖由 blue_rosey 於 2009-3-20 06:21 PM 發表
i wanted to PM you, but you don't have enough points.  
I typed out an almost-rape experience, thought you may want to hear the female perspective on similar situation: http://www.discuss.c ...

What is PM?  PM as in AM/PM?  How many points do I need?
Thank you for sharing your experience with me.  I actually read it two days ago... I think your situation was different... you didn't get deflowered and you left the room as a virgin... but she...

kevinkwank

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原帖由 亞波羅 於 2009-3-20 08:16 PM 發表
o, sorry to hear your rude acting. how was the school life with her afterwards ?:smile_27:

she stayed for another semester and transferred... she never told me where she was going, but her roommate told me she's going back to Singapore... and her classmates said she got transferred to a CSU... :')

kevinkwank

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原帖由 新鮮人2008 於 2009-3-21 02:10 AM 發表


It is sad to learn that your relationship with her ended in such a way.  Also u are lucky that she did not call the Police.  As you grow older and from this experience, I am sure that you know how ...

no, i actually wanted her to report me if she was willing to forgive me that way... i actually suggested that to her.  she said it's useless... it was irreversible and no matter what i did, we couldn't turn back...