wannabe

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原帖由 blue_rosey 於 2009-4-3 10:38 PM 發表


well, even if they had sex before they got married... and he really loved her... would a guy break a relationship because of sex (or rather, lack of it)...?  

i don't think so.  i kno ...

so far as i've heard / seen fr frds (or frd's frds), sex is important but not the deal breaker :smile_35:

blue_rosey

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原帖由 futfuk 於 2009-4-3 10:50 PM 發表  
+1
you do have to realize, once u told him, it will never be the same.
and it will take many moons to rebuild that trust. 

mm. that's true.
his trust for me was a complete blind trust and if i never told him, he'd never find out...

but i enjoy our honest relationship where we can have absolutely nothing to hide from each other... just didn't want to break that even if it might be the end for us.  

jimus_08

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原帖由 wannabe 於 2009-4-3 10:58 PM 發表


so far as i've heard / seen fr frds (or frd's frds), sex is important but not the deal breaker :smile_35:

right

wannabe

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原帖由 blue_rosey 於 2009-4-3 10:42 PM 發表

does he have any reason to lie to a one night stand partner after the sex?

maybe he wants it to be a more than one-time-thing.  :smile_35:

no particular reason i suppose
he gotta say sth which can justify himself in his subconscious perhaps

macy18

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原帖由 jimus_08 於 2009-4-3 10:53 PM 發表


Maybe i did not read through the whole convo and I am a bit lost. What is it to do with climbing the corporate ladder and married co-workers being honest to you?

sorry i m referring to two things here
should have separate the lines
they are too honest to me (maybe they think i can take it)

but, there are someone who trade their bodies for promotions...

blue_rosey

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原帖由 wannabe 於 2009-4-3 10:52 PM 發表  my buz trips n projects hv been planned up to june so i dun hv time to fly back before u go
and my sis is actually gonna stay for the next whole year 
tho i'm thinking to go home n see my parents in aug 

it's ok. 
surely we'll get a chance to meet in the future.

mm will be really happy to meet you in june.  you can meet chef too!

blue_rosey

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原帖由 wannabe 於 2009-4-3 10:58 PM 發表 [url=http://www.discuss.com.hk/redirect.php?goto=findpost&pid=197776970&ptid=9401871][/urlso far as i've heard / seen fr frds (or frd's frds), sex is important but not the deal breaker :smile_35:

yeah, that's the majority answer i get. 

wannabe

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原帖由 macy18 於 2009-4-3 10:57 PM 發表


i mean a lot of girls will say yes to get into a better position in the corporate world

my co-workers (rather my boss's boss's boss) is honest in a sense that he told me he likes me
but he loves his wife and just wants a physical relationship with me.

oh my god ... i thot this kinda story would only be seen in movie
lucky i dun hv to encounter such boss ... is he still working with u at the same office?

macy18

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原帖由 wannabe 於 2009-4-3 10:58 PM 發表


so far as i've heard / seen fr frds (or frd's frds), sex is important but not the deal breaker :smile_35:

agreed
if not those perfect husbands will not be sleeping around but try so hard to maintain the family relationship

futfuk

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原帖由 macy18 於 2009-4-3 10:57 PM 發表


i mean a lot of girls will say yes to get into a better position in the corporate world

my co-workers (rather my boss's boss's boss) is honest in a sense that he told me he likes me
but he lo ...

even in general, jus when do u ever trust what these ppl say..........