vincent7woo

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原帖由 piggy3616 於 2009-7-16 16:47 發表


I don't understand why you say this.
Your subjective view is, I must have some problem and therefore cannot find a boyfriend.
Building up a relationship, is a two way process.
Not necessarily o ...

One word "緣"

因子單

你回來了啦

piggy3616

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原帖由 ccmhkg 於 2009-7-16 04:49 PM 發表


.....as a whole.....

Mei wow???

piggy3616

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原帖由 因子單 於 2009-7-16 04:52 PM 發表
你回來了啦

Thanks for saying this........... I feel a little bit warm.........

因子單

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原帖由 piggy3616 於 2009-7-16 04:53 PM 發表


Thanks for saying this........... I feel a little bit warm.........

YOU'RE WELCOME

ccmhkg

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原帖由 piggy3616 於 2009-7-16 04:53 PM 發表


Mei wow???

Things can be beauty only when we accept it in a whole....

[ 本帖最後由 ccmhkg 於 2009-7-16 05:01 PM 編輯 ]

piggy3616

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原帖由 vincent7woo 於 2009-7-16 04:48 PM 發表


me 2 wow......
:smile_o11:
u & me ... who is the best "WATER FISH"

Probably me la.......but I always like to make the biggest 'Pai'.  But always cannot 'eat'....... I still enjoy the process.  

中越混血兒

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原帖由 piggy3616 於 2009-7-16 16:47 發表


I don't understand why you say this.
Your subjective view is, I must have some problem and therefore cannot find a boyfriend.
Building up a relationship, is a two way process.
Not necessarily o ...

sorry , 我所指的"問題", 並無對錯善惡好壞之分,
有機會係妳一個習慣, 處事的一種心態, 你身份,......

亦可能非一般表面的例如 性格, 外貌......等

就例如我個人覺得, 一個人能否得到佢想要既野, 某程度上幾睇佢有幾想得到
妳由分手到現在這幾年, 又有幾積極去搵??
定是下下都隨緣......

又例如你遇到你喜歡但知道他不喜歡妳的, 在介紹給朋友之前,
有冇用盡任何方法去令他愛上妳??
(冇, 點解冇? 不懂? 不敢? )
(有, 點解唔成功??)

再重申,只係想你再細心想一想, 還未能得到那 Mr.right 的原因
有時係要對症下藥先可以解決到,

如果你知道問題係邊而唔肯去改善, 這又是另一個問題,

而如果你肯定你自己一d問題都冇,
有問題既只係其他人....不懂欣賞妳, .....没緣份遇上.....等等
咁妳可以咩都唔駛做 祝你好運:smile_34:

piggy3616

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原帖由 ccmhkg 於 2009-7-16 04:58 PM 發表


Things can be beauty only when we accept it in a whole....

I got some private messages from some guys, aged 33, 35, 38..............
I am 41 and obviously I want to find men elder than me.
But the fact is, if men elder than me, probably they would have married, or have a girlfriend, or attached, or they never want to have a stable relationship........... only a small portion is really available.

Actually I can compromise, to try to know guys younger than me.
But I'll just be myself.
I can't pretend to be young...... I can't pretend to be younger than my age..........too tiring for that.
Well, it is the young guy who look for me......... so...I won't do anything to pretend young.

piggy3616

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原帖由 中越混血兒 於 2009-7-16 05:23 PM 發表


sorry , 我所指的"問題", 並無對錯善惡好壞之分,
有機會係妳一個習慣, 處事的一種心態, 你身份,......

亦可能非一般表面的例如 性格, 外貌......等

就例如我個人覺得, 一個人能否得到佢想要既野, 某程度上 ...

All I can say is, I did what I could.
I am not in a 'giving up mood', but the fact is, the market does not have much supply, so what can I do?
Men suitable for my age (elder than me), are getting lesser and lesser.
The supply will keep on decreasing instead of increasing.
And, men suitable for my age, not necessarily want to find woman of my age.