futfuk

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原帖由 macy18 於 2009-4-3 10:29 PM 發表



well, i don't mind someone being honest to me coz I can tell him honestly NO
for some reason I have been approached by tons of married guy before
well, i don't have any feeling, nothing new...

pretty fucked up, no?

macy18

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原帖由 futfuk 於 2009-4-3 10:22 PM 發表


age is really that important for a girl, eh?

well, depends
if you want to have babies, yes
if not, and you don't really care, hm, maybe not

futfuk

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原帖由 blue_rosey 於 2009-4-3 10:29 PM 發表


he told me his wife doesn't like sex, so they do it once every month or two.  

he might be lying though, i don't know... though he has no reasons to lie.. he's not anyone to me. :p

if its true, that's most certainly is a deal breaker...

that's why sex BEFORE marriage is important...

-Leo-

comeback home

blue_rosey

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原帖由 wannabe 於 2009-4-3 10:25 PM 發表  oh well its always hard to understand the mentality of cheaters
anyway i'm glad that u didn't fall into tat married guy's trap

well, i was shamefully cheating on my bf also.. maybe that's why our little "fling".. ok.. it doesn't even deserve that word.. our one night thing feels safe because we're both attached. ~.~

but i guess there is a difference in men and women afterall.. i went home crying regretting and told my bf everything.. he went home and went back to being his perfect husband and pretend nothing happened. ~.~  

or maybe some people are craved to be good cheaters and some are not. 

wannabe

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原帖由 blue_rosey 於 2009-4-3 10:27 PM 發表

i believe in trust and communication.  

exactly ... i always thot if he could bring up the issues with me earlier instead of hiding in his mind, our story would look different
perhaps my bad ... i should lead him to talk with me anyway

macy18

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原帖由 wannabe 於 2009-4-3 10:25 PM 發表



oh well its always hard to understand the mentality of cheaters
anyway i'm glad that u didn't fall into tat married guy's trap

too experienced in handling their fantasy
i work in an environment where a lot of my co-workers are married
honestly, i appreciate their honesty
in the corporate world, people do whatever to get them to the top

macy18

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原帖由 blue_rosey 於 2009-4-3 10:27 PM 發表

i believe in trust and communication. 

yea, in ideal case...
my problem is i don't even trust myself...

blue_rosey

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原帖由 wannabe 於 2009-4-3 10:31 PM 發表 sweetie, u know i cant wait to see you anymore ... i wish i can fly over to hk tonite  :smile_47:

maybe you should come home with your sister.... you know, use up some of those 50 days annual leave... and you can chill with us in hk until i go back to mapleland next month. 

wannabe

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原帖由 blue_rosey 於 2009-4-3 10:29 PM 發表


he told me his wife doesn't like sex, so they do it once every month or two.  

he might be lying though, i don't know... though he has no reasons to lie.. he's not anyone to me. :p

90% is a lie ... tat was exactly one of those lies my ex- told the gal
birds of a feather flock together