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情慾既世界是複雜而迷人，盡早抽身，建立一段正常既男女關係比較好，而人生既可悲係好多時建立既正常關係，最後，同你一齊行婚姻之路往往唔係你所深愛既果一個。人是要珍惜自己既情感。但發覺自己既枕邊人只是為一份安穩而選擇時，果刻總是充滿無奈和唏噓。而愛情既天平和時機彼此雙方永遠不可能平等，總有一方愛得太多太深，另一方既愛只能維持在一𣊬間。

唉，春去也，飛紅萬點愁如海。

R.Gonzalez

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原帖由 Norwegian_wood 於 2014-12-29 10:42 PM 發表

haha. we share many common interests!
soccer, books and music
i think i have to know you.

Haha....another common interest: ladies.

You have to know me? Why not?

Norwegian_wood

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原帖由 Cmiu 於 2014-12-30 11:15 AM 發表



我係因為想放低佢而想豁出去
但我仲未豁到.....
玩,我之前都玩過,但玩完之後我得唔到任何野而令到我感到失落,但男神係可以用愛尼回應番我,係佢比到呢種感覺我.
可惜.



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It's normal to be upset after playing if your relationship is purely driven by sex desire. Girls need both physical and mental comfort to satisfy their read need which is different from most boys.
Mismatching of the expectation and need will always hurt of you as a result.

Playing can help you to forget the past just because of leading you to be out of solitude, but it cannot solve the root. I think you should understand what I am saying. But anyway, it's easy to say. If I were you, I think I cannot control myself too.

Take care. I experienced similar things with you. I guess it's not easy to walk away from the sadness.

Norwegian_wood

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原帖由 R.Gonzalez 於 2014-12-30 12:23 PM 發表

Haha....another common interest: ladies.

You have to know me? Why not?

Pm ed you! Hahaha

Norwegian_wood

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原帖由 阿米€ 於 2014-12-30 12:02 PM 發表
情慾既世界是複雜而迷人，盡早抽身，建立一段正常既男女關係比較好，而人生既可悲係好多時建立既正常關係，最後，同你一齊行婚姻之路往往唔係你所深愛既果一個。人是要珍惜自己既情感。但發覺自己既枕邊人只是為一份 ...

Thank for your inspiring comment!
It is undoubtedly true to develop a normal relationship rather than a sexual relationship. Sex is just a desire and love is more important.
Hope all of us can find someone who love you truly but not for stability or other factors not related to love.

Anyway, very nice poem! 好文采師兄!

少女維特

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原帖由 Norwegian_wood 於 2014-12-30 20:43 發表
Thank for your inspiring comment!
It is undoubtedly true to develop a normal relationship rather than a sexual relationship. Sex is just a desire and love is more important.
Hope all of us can find someone who love you truly but not for stability or other factors not related to love.

Anyway, very nice poem! 好文采師兄!

一般見過世面既人應該都唔會(再)企圖將現代都市愛情「複雜簡單化」，不過人既情感慾望講到底其實都係千古同歎既恆常東西。戀人跟車太貼自然會當局者迷，但如果響適當時候退後一步，或者會發現：呢個世界其實冇咁多乜嘢悲苦決定論既愛情，而往往只係執迷者將事情「簡單複雜化」既虛妄景象。⋯⋯亂吹一通，哈哈！多謝樓主分享故事先

btw，樓上阿米師兄簽名既詩句應係出自余光中《如果遠方有戰爭》。

Norwegian_wood

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原帖由 少女維特 於 2014-12-31 02:03 AM 發表

一般見過世面既人應該都唔會(再)企圖將現代都市愛情「複雜簡單化」，不過人既情感慾望講到底其實都係千古同歎既恆常東西。戀人跟車太貼自然會當局者迷，但如果響適當時候退後一步，或者會發現：呢個世界其實冇咁多 ...

將愛情「複雜簡單化」都未嘗係一件壞事，甚至我認為真心做到咁既人係一種恩賜
佢地唔需要諗咁多野
但其實 講到最後 好似你咁講
情感慾望係控制唔到
當我地話人地當局者迷
但其實自己起同一樣既局入面都係困住走唔到出嚟
我自己都有段時間係咁樣

經歷越多 磨練越多 只會讓人更複雜
複雜的人自然唔能夠隨意簡單化所有事情

簡單複雜化 庸人自擾
或者每個人都好似經過維特類似既經歷 愛上一個唔應該愛上既人 只係唔會走上佢最後所選擇既路
外人睇落好唔理性 但咁易抽身始終失左去人本身所有的感情

anyway, 多謝你特登開個account 黎留言
少年維特個故仔又真係幾貼切到你既留言

Norwegian_wood

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原帖由 我係lok~~ 於 2014-12-30 11:33 AM 發表
高妹!

咩高妹???

R.Gonzalez

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原帖由 Norwegian_wood 於 2014-12-31 11:38 AM 發表

將愛情「複雜簡單化」都未嘗係一件壞事，甚至我認為真心做到咁既人係一種恩賜
佢地唔需要諗咁多野
經歷越多 磨練越多 只會讓人更複雜
複雜的人自然唔能夠隨意簡單化所有事情 ...

偶爾做一次「複雜簡單化」，心境會放鬆D，比如係去旅行......

Norwegian_wood

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原帖由 R.Gonzalez 於 2015-1-2 08:26 AM 發表

偶爾做一次「複雜簡單化」，心境會放鬆D，比如係去旅行......

哈哈
已經算係成日去
我去旅行果種方式真係可以好relax﹗