you made the wise stop at the right moment. He was a nice guy to let go too! Otherwise, may cause u lots of trouble, things would turn worse. Both wouldn't hv a such unbreathable momeries. I am sure he will never forget u too, Mandy! Keep it in your heart. Most of us have forbidden love in this group. However, how many could make a rational and respectful split as u did? I respect u and your ex lover, Ying. But may I remind u that u may not be so lucky to meet another nice guy next affair. So, just be good as what u r now, wife and mom