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原帖由 sorsorying 於 13/3/2015 01:22 發表 
But , for u, those women could only be your SL /SP,as u r married. Haha
That's why I'm still questioning , is he the right person to me ? If he is , why would I have an extra space for another ...
While I am longing for a soul mate, I am not quite interested in SL/SP... don't want to get another person to commit to a relationship that I cannot truly commit...
I get married, perhaps, because out of a sense of responsibility... She was my first date and while I did not have sex with her, we had done something very close to sex...
whether he is the right person is a difficult question... Having said that, even if he is, you still need some space... good sisters, family, etc., not necessarily SL/SP. Even one has a SL/SP, it does not necessarily follow that his/her spouse/partner is not the right person. This is a bit over simplistic... after all, we all have our moments of weakness...
