PolyGram

Suki1985:

Many people have been posted and told you what to do and encourage you to be "Stand Up" again.  I'm sure that you know what to do and you have done the right thing over these past few days.  Well Done!  


As other members said, Time is the best way to prove anything and recovery your "hurt."


Being sad and still remember your ex-boyfriend are normal reaction.
Especially, this is your first love and never have any experience before.
Based on your high expectation of this love, it's normal that you feel badly to lose him, no matter he is a good or bad guy.


Just remember, fail of first love doesn't mean you are a loser or unable to fall in love again.
If you try to open your social life and meet people, you must find the right guy.


Actually, fall in love with someone is not just wanting to be happy together or get married,
but also learn how to respect people and understand how to live with other people on different background and opinions.
This is the topic you are missing right now and need to learn outside of school.



Also, in the future, if you find the man you both really like each other,
and if he is really love your personality and character,
he won't care or mind your history and what you have done in the past.
So, no need to be hide or lie to him.
If someone says "I'm care!", then he doesn't love you, he just loves your beauty and wants sex, he doesn't like inside of your heart.


At this time, your mother, "賓賓", and your friends are represented of your true love.
Although they don't know the whole story, they are always next with you and support you.
They try to make you happy and giving you many positive thought, in order to make you focus on the future, not looking backward.
If you are also love them, you should help yourself to "stand up", don't be sad for too long.
They would worry about you if you keep in upset.



Remember:  Sex is built up by having love.  Love first, then sex life.



Hope this help and I really hope you can recover soon!

r.bangladesh

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原帖由 suki1985 於 2008-12-7 08:30 PM 發表
剛剛姐姐(賓賓)返左，問我食左野未，我話未，不過自己煮得啦，跟住佢問我係未同男朋友分左手先剪短頭髮，我話應該係啦！佢話唔駛唔開心，你甘靚女實多人追，好快會有男朋友，我話我唔係驚無男朋友，同埋我都唔想甘快 ...

新的開始，新的形象。

不要看自己太差太弱，既然你能有工作，有家人照顧，有人關心已經是一種福氣，你要好好把握喔。

至於返工路線，不用為這事情而改變，你就是你嘛，你不附屬於任何人的。

緊記，吃多點有營養的東西，吃得好住得好，活得比人家好。

hkhkhkair

恭喜妳可以"從新做人"...唔洗再比啲賤人煩住....加油...妳一定會有一個更好既男友...

lemon00831

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原帖由 PolyGram 於 2008-12-8 06:27 AM 發表
Suki1985:

Many people have been posted and told you what to do and encourage you to be "Stand Up" again.  I'm sure that you know what to do and you have done the right thing over these past few day ...

he won't care or mind your history and what you have done in the past.

呢位ching講得好岩...真係鍾意你既人係唔會介意你既過去...唔覺得自己已經變左個咩人...你都仲你
今日天氣好好...祝你今日有愉快的一天
同以前say goodbye


[ 本帖最後由 lemon00831 於 2008-12-8 09:12 AM 編輯 ]

651bun

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原帖由 suki1985 於 2008-12-6 02:34 PM 發表
Hi All，尋日食晏時拎返部新機上去，入到去擺低左，寫低左幾隻字，內容係話希望之後佢如果未經d女仔同意唔好再甘做，又叫佢要尊重別人，之後我大約逗留左十分鐘，四周圍睇下，真係"大頭蝦happy"甘講，會諗返以前好多 ...

Way to go, girl!!!:smile_38: :smile_38:

169394

比心機呀suki:smile_38:
對住一個已變質的人, 唔開心係唔值得:smile_44:
俾點時間自己, 事情總會好的.

lemon00831

而點解會黎左呢度既:smile_14:

魚眼

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原帖由 lemon00831 於 2008-12-9 12:51 AM 發表
而點解會黎左呢度既:smile_14:

我都覺得奇怪, 不過唔緊要啦~反正大家都識黎, 但係......樓主會唔會唔識路入黎?

clementyue

根本無需刻意既改變自己的生活而去遷就一段要了結既往事,只要時時刻刻記住自己既屋企人同朋友係幾咁關心妳同支持妳就夠啦,因為佢地先至係妳生命既推動力:smile_34:

"忘記背後,努力面前,向著標杆直跑"

w33ilson

Suki, 你好嗎? 仲記得我嗎? 可能已經唔記得左, :smile_13:
見到你一日一日咁, 其實已經知道你已經好番好多, 只係傷口係需要時間康復既, 慢慢黎啦!
况而人生係有好多野可以去追求既! 只係你識唔識去調節姐!
食多左野係好事呀, 至少你肯去食野, 好過無胃口呀!!
夜晚訓唔著, 試下搵D野做, 做到攰先再去訓! 例如睇書, 跑步, 或者搵D野學下咯!!! 總會有D野有興趣既!!
努力呀, 支持你!!!!