Hi Chings, I asked this a few times but no clear answer. I want to find more girls using QQ交友 and QQ城市達人, but it seems when I find the girls I can only do these things: 详细资料 打个招呼 发小纸条 送他礼物 测试缘份 ,but I cant add her QQ. And it seems do to this need to pay money. Some Chings told me no need money, but must upload photo. But I really don't want to upload photo unless there is good privacy. Also if little money I think is ok. Can Chings pls help and tell me! Thanks

in my opinion it's a waste of them using 城市達人 and qq交友
most girls only add 大陸people there, besides most people have photos there and u can't expect them to show interest on you without knowing how u look like. upload 1 bury pic only if u are so concern about privacy...

Ching you still have no luck getting QQ girls?  I really think using English is an effective way for girls to add you.  Of course, these are educated girls so whether you can eat them or not depends on your skills and how you present yourself.  Have you opened your QQ space yet?  You really don't have to post your photo there (I didn't).  Write something and girls will find you.  Last week, a QQ girl added me after reading my stuff.  Today, I chatted with her for a while and found that she is a doctor, what a surprise.  The QQ girls I met range from 15 - 3x and from various social background.  

Anyway, open your QQ Space first and go from there.  If you can only meet 2 pretty girls through QQ Space that is well worth the hassle!

Good luck

Thanks a lot of the advice from you 2

Ok I think I will open QQ Space...as to what to write. I guess just copy some articles/paragraphs/sentences about love/life/thinking, that kind of bullshet from the net is ok? :smile_30: And u write in Chinese or English? Thanks

[ 本帖最後由 Chinababeswant 於 2009-5-28 09:37 PM 編輯 ]

I wrote both Chinese and English.  Whether you write your own or copy from someone else is up to you.  The key is to make the girls think you are educated, knowledgeable, care, and passionate of something.  Eventually you have to write something on your own.  Good luck!

I think Ching you are very experience and pro...dont know when I can become so good...thanks for your advice!

唔係喎，
我都試過係都市達人同QQ交友加過靚女，不過佢地都係外省人
都市達人我係無啦啦search到個女仔幾靚，跟著順手加佢，估唔到佢又加返我，加左佢都差唔多幾左月啦，起初佢都好唔信我，會話香港人好多騙子，宜家識耐左就無咩了，可能因為我無諗過要溝佢掛

跟住係QQ交友都試過加過幾個，一個係佢自動加我既，到宜家都幾傾得，仲話一般定要黎香港搵我玩。另一個係我見佢好靚跟住加既，又估唔到俾我加到，不過無咩特別，都係簡中吹下水咁。

都市達人唔駛錢，玩下無所謂，QQ交友就要俾錢既，玩一個月都OK既

結論係，兩樣玩下就好了，因為我宜家都懶得玩呢兩樣

I like too scared to upload photo, so I just try make a new QQ and QQ space first I think

Thanks dc_man  Ching... you said 城市達人 is free right. I tried it and when I find a girl I want to add, I cannot add her. Can only send a present or a '打叫呼‘... so how to add?

So from what you said seems like they are tools and not the most important. So what would you recommend for me to find more girls? I have a few QQ online 24 hours, but no girls add me... I search myself but mostly pork chops

都市達人的話，女仔可以SET左隱藏資料，咁你咪打下招呼，送下禮物仔咯，如果佢有回覆的話，到時咪問佢可唔可以做個朋友。

想最快加到人，咪俾10人仔買一個月既QQ交友服務，俾左錢之後就可以睇到人地個QQ NO。然後猛咁search，總有一個會俾你加到既。