Normal couple can make love easily, only when either one or both side feel make love is something abnormal, not part of living. Then here is where problem coming from.
If sexual imagination works for you, might as well try to create different scenario. But I guess you can take some initiative too such as, cosplay, touch his body and flirting beforehand.
But some homework still have to do : ensure your imagination and reassure you have desire to make love with him ONLY.
Otherwise, the imagination, he might want to try in reality...
Hope everything works out right for you.
Think you enjoy so much being touched by male.... And love that kind of soft and gentle touch feeling, and will make your pussy wet too... That's why Mr Wong have a chance before... On the other hand, your man just take off clothes... Then want to fuck you right after....