Agree completely. You have to respect each other, even if the affair ends.

His/her well-being is the utmost important thing if you really care about him/her.

This is something I keep reminding myself.....

我唔明點解大家都相愛,但都要分開。。。
仲要講到好似我做錯咁。。。
講到自己成個受害者咁
男人,講到尾咪又係食嫌左想食個第2個
可能由此至終都係我愛佢,多過佢愛我。。。
係我自己傻。。。愛上一個咁樣既男人。。。

Ps,醒左諗起佢既感覺真係好辛苦。。。琴日睏左4個鐘jar><

師妹，你同人夫分開左?
你無耐前先出左潮吹篇架
定我記錯人呢？

C miu,我不知道你的situation,但過左去就算

咁係咪自私？
愛～做完就走？

男人/女人～要走其實係可以唔駛俾理由～
當初出現亦唔會有原因～走更可以冇交代

愛本身冇對錯,錯只在人.是否有過份期望？
如果師姐你的是人夫,係咪應該知道終會有結束既一日？

我很喜歡閲讀各位的意見，亦令我頗有感觸。現在我的態度同依位師姐一様。見面時就全身全心全意去溫馨。平日咪閒談關心幾句，就好足夠。目的其實是令自己定位不要太緊張對方，咁一來令自己對對方有所求，對方亦因不能滿足你而產生壓力不滿

Good morning every one. Sorry that I don't post any story progress these 2 days. I was sick and now feel better today. But I need to clear up all stuff today. No matter, I decide to write a little more no matter how busy I am today.

Good day to all

I really read all posts of these 2 days. In short, I fully know how hurt it is for some Sis and Bro. But I wanna bring back to one core question - why do you start such relationship at the beginning? Take me as an example, I actually did not have any intention to have any affairs with Mr D. Even now, why I don't take him as my SP/SL, because I don't wanna myself to put any unrealistic expectation from him. Even SP/SL, you cannot help having some expectation and return from the opposite side, no matter sex, or meeting time, or chat with you every day. That is why I find it equilibrium with D now....at least both of us don't feel any pressure, feel happy to just chat a little every day. and Look forward to our next meeting, that without any fixed plan or schedule