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原帖由 Ms.po 於 2012-4-6 02:51 AM 發表
我相信每個有另一半既人偷食完都會有罪惡感,而依個仆街我連小小都唔覺佢有,佢仲可以滿口歪理,我真係替個妹可憐,有個咁既家姐不特止..仲要有個咁人渣既男友
我吾知一個滿懷歉意嘅偷食者是否比一個心安理得或"少少罪惡感都唔覺佢有"嘅偷食者來得高尚.
每人心裹都有把尺,我可不會急於拿出來量度別人,因為小時候讀過Fitzgerald 下面幾句,一直銘記於心.
In my younger and more vulnerable years my father gave me some advice that I've been turning over in my mind ever since.
"Whenever you feel like criticizing any one," he told me, "just remember that all the people in this world haven't had the advantages that you've had."
我們都想做聖人,更準確地說,我們都要求別人是聖人.但形格勢禁,各人有各人的難處.口裏唱唱高調,人人都曉,因此我非常欣賞懂得說 I can resist anything but temptation 的前輩,人,貴乎自知.
無論如何,當我看到你說"我真係替個妹可憐",我不是不感動的..只是我必須替家姊說句公道話,她是十分病惜細妹的.只是我們有時會無意中傷害了我們最愛的人罷了.
我不知你的年紀,想必是為人父母,所以看得這樣切齒,如果你真的感到難受,就當這是篇小說罷.