Hubby’s annual dinner
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Of note, this story is not too sexual, more like what I thought about recently.
Hope this does not bore you all too much….
My hubby just had his company’s annual dinner.
I did not join him this year, but I was there last year.
It was this uneasy experience that stops me from going this year.
So this happened last year.
It was quite a night when everyone dressed up.
I did not wear an evening gown, but I was still in a very nice black dress, hiding the extra weight after giving birth.
Most of my hubby’s colleagues are nice, half of them are locals, half of them are foreigners.
Some of the guys are pretty handsome, while some women were dressed so formal as if they were getting married.
We all drank quite a bit during the dinner and were having a good time.
While my hubby hang out with the guys, I did have some time to hang out with the gals.
There was this gal (let’s call her Kay, fake name) who hang out with me quite a bit.
She’s a Hong Konger, single, quite talkative but pleasant.
She is like 5”6, maybe in her late 20s, seems pretty smart.
She does have a hot body and she is not afraid to show off as she wore a deep V gown that night, her legs are slender too.
I would have jumped on her if I were a guy.
We exchanged shopping experience, clothing tips, all the gal chat.
However, after she had a few drinks too much, the topics started getting weird.
She started asking if my hubby gets me lingerie, how our sex life is….
In general, I do not mind talking about these topics, but something so intimate with someone my hubby works with, plus in his absence.
So I was like uh-huh, uh-huh.
Then she started saying it is so good for me not to have to work, to have my hubby take care of me, and that she is not that lucky.
She kept saying my hubby is a nice guy, I am so lucky to be with him….
I was trying to be polite, but come on, don’t pretend you know so much about us….
What is that to her?
Later I asked my hubby if Kay and him are close.
Basically, they are not even in the same department.
Kay is more junior in another area.
My hubby said they work on the same floor but they only chat when they meet in the pantry or when the big group goes out for happy hour.
I know my hubby is not doing anything with Kay out of line, but my instinct tells me she may have something on him.
I tried to tell myself not to think too much and to have faith on our marriage and my hubby.
However, it is so hard not to second guess myself and that my hubby may be tired of such a “yellow face wife” like me.
A smart young gal like Kay with a hot body and sexy legs is hard to resist.
What if she seduces him into having an affair?
Is she into him for his money?
Such thoughts were driving me crazy for some time.
Finally I got over that by telling myself I could not do much to that.
I just need to love my hubby and make sure he is aware of that.
I need to have faith in our marriage.
This year I chose not to go to the annual dinner.
Maybe I just don’t want to see Kay….
[ 本帖最後由 lengtaimama 於 2011-1-23 11:20 PM 編輯 ]
