c-hing如果你真係鐘意條女.你就要信佢.你同我情况差不多.
我條女又話嫁俾我.之后.我叫左佢返鄉下.每個月寄三千俾佢.
每個月去探佢一次.如是者.半年之后.佢同我講.佢有咗.我同佢講:
一定真係我的?生左佢落來去驗DNA.係我的即刻結婚.唔係.你食屎啦.
兩日之後.我銀行户口收到萬二汶.同理短訊.(老死不生往返)
原來.佢返去之后.尋左份售貨.剩係用左我四千買左架電動車用黎返工.
其它的錢.佢話係結婚果陣可以俾佢屋企當禮金.
依家.佢屋企搬左.電話轉左.我完全尹佢唔度.
c-hing諗清楚先好做呀.哩個世界無后侮藥的

[ 本帖最後由 lili70114 於 2009-10-13 01:09 AM 編輯 ]

C hing 請先睇完孝哥張帖再想一想自己，我覺得你條女係喜歡你的，因你們年齡相约，樣子又ok，但最重要係佢知道你的經濟能力，禮金五皮就是最好的証明。                                                                                                           真人真事一則，我朋友的姑事和你相约，上去四川看家長，講好了禮金3皮、洒席20位，見家長時已给了4萬元等他們去準備，下個月有大假四川結婚，我朋友一個人回到香港，頭幾天亦有和女朋友通电有講有笑，後來兩日無电話到，再過兩曰女朋友來电說，她在四川的男朋友知道她識了個香港有錢男朋友，男的对她家人不利，要錢又要人，女的迫於無奈就騙了我朋友的金錢和感情！！

樓主, if u really wanna be with her forever, then as said by others,
1.> ask her to resign this job,
2.> get married,
3.> move to Shenzhen with her.
As per ur story, in my opinion, she can leave everything and even
left her past to be with u...
I was once in ur same situation, but i could not afford sacrify my freedom
by getting married...then she went back 鄉下 and got married to a lazy one. :smile_o08:
But if ur trust in her fidelity has dropped, then u better ask her,
No need to ask other to test her, be urself, go and see by ur own eyes,
this will be the best way to get answers to ur question....:smile_o12:
(will be ur question, that someone has proposed her a better proposal and willing to marry
her at any cost? or just that she was forced to go out, breaking her promise ?:smile_o14: )

你要試佢根本表示吾信佢，你話因某事件對佢有懷疑，你吾俾係佢有心試你信吾信佢。你介意就講清楚分手吧啦。兩個人係一齊最貴乎袒誠，乜都放係心入面，你試我我試你，好倦姐:smile_o10:

師兄你又話自己點樣沉﹐點樣愛條女﹐我覺得完全係假的﹐你月入兩萬幾﹐你叫她吾好返份工﹐但又吾幫她交租﹐生活費又吾俾﹐試問她又何以為生啊﹐人地之前都試過兩次叫你幫手交租啦﹐你都係度扮傻﹐真係太小氣啦﹐你同深圳地狼狗都無分別啦﹐叫雞吾俾錢﹐就欠同她拿返錢啦﹐仲話要試下人﹐你根本無資格呀

邊駛諗甘多:smile_41: 玩得起米去馬囉

樓主你成日都計住怕條女呃9你咁一齊又有咩意思呀?:smile_41: 講真句你有好很多俾人呃咩?但你絕對冇在個女仔方面想喎,你想一想人地冇錢比你者但係時間青春感情都俾晒你,好話唔好聽你一轉頭就走左去唔接佢電話唔理佢等等各樣,佢個女仔又可以做到d乜呢?你都仲可以玩下突擊檢查丫,佢唔可以黎香港搵你講清楚架喎咪仲冇保障?:smile_39: 你只想試試個女仔既心但其實已經試出左你自己個人既心態啦,你比佢更差啊,人地都未同你計較啦你就係度猜度人家......你早d放手吧啦如果係咁,無謂累人累己!相愛還要計較的就不如不愛好了:smile_55:

嘩,你真係鍾意條女仲會俾佢出黎撈
你真係好撚無謂,仲要叫人試9佢鐘
條女日日俾人搞或者齋坐,你都可以冇撚反應既
你同武大郎有乜撚分別
鍾唔鍾意佢你自己都心撚照
將來佢真係呃鳩到你錢,我都唔會可憐你

好多師兄都吊得你都０岩，你不過係怕她呃你，你唔明國內女仔心態，同她父母的擔心，嫁你實好０架，個女嫁到咁遠，有咩事都幫唔到，同大陸女仔一般好少離婚，除非年齡相差太遠，你要試好簡單，你問她：話你好鐘意細路，她肯生幾多個，她如果搵借口唔生，咁你可以搵果個啦，大陸女子一般一定要生番個仔，她都怕你第日唔要她，同你可以問她鐘意你什麼，唔好要求太高，答得有６０分就算啦，她們讀書唔多，好多事物係在香港人身上學返來，所以一般都好鐘意我們香港男子去溝，有無結果令一回事，好多我們認為基本野；她們係唔識既，你試下問她電視同電話點傳送，一日有幾多小時，她們一般只識比仔溝，仆野，嫁人，生仔

"佢咩都唔關心，但係就吊狗我禮金最少要5皮"
看到這兩句, 覺得她有點怪......純粹個人觀感.