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原帖由 wannabe 於 2009-8-9 08:47 PM 發表 
well that's definitely not the definition i learnt back then and not even the same as i found on urban dict
a friend in which you are allowed sexual activity but no true relationship is involved. not a gf or bf
the benefit is purely sexual. not to be tied with feelings
http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=friend+with+benefits
Well, i think for us, in the beginning, there's only sex.
but now there's more, whatever that more is. ~.~
I think it doesn't matter as long as I enjoy what it is now; and he technically only has a month left to be here.
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sounds like you are gonna go for multiple dating to me 
but that's exactly the perk being single haha
if A doesn't work out, there is another person ... and if B is busy, there's always C
anyway, i believe you've figured out what you want and what not
just that sometimes you goto put yourself first and learn to say NO once in a while 
I think multiple-dating is the way to go before i settle into another relationship.
I think I have a date later next week, we'll see how that goes.
But I'm not very sure about this guy... too bad my roommate's happy with her new guy, coz this guy is more her type than mine. lol!
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youknow, IMHO having sex too soon is indeed a bad idea ... read somearticle saying that your body will release several hormones, espoxytocin which has a pair bonding effect and make you attached to thatperson hmmmm interesting, eh? i'm just afraid you would be the one leftwith an empty heart and feeling pathetic and used when things go bad ^^"
Yeah, I know.
I told Gab the 3rd time we slept together (in teh same week too) that I think we're doing it too much and I'm getting attached. ><"
But now I find a balance and we're all good. At least I am.
he seems to be more attach, or at least affectionate, than he should be though.
