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原帖由 wannabe 於 2009-8-9 11:29 AM 發表
oh rosey, the meaning of benefits in this FWB term is all about sex ... urban dict it :smile_35:
when you are giving him some food for thoughts, what do you really wanna see if your intention is ...
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| 1. A safe relationship, that mimics a real partnership but is void orgreatly laking jealousy and other such emotions that come with aserious relationship.
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i guess this is exactly what we are.
and intention... i don't intend for anything, but if he can become a better person because of me, it'll make me happy...
but i don't expect that because i am the one to make him a "better" (in my opinion) person, he'll end up being in some sort of relationship with me,
that's a rather naive thinking to project on anyone, but especially on him.
as for time investment... i don't know, i have fun with him, isn't it enough?
and he's not tying me down from seeing anyone else, so it's not like i can't date other people meanwhile.
in fact, i think it'll give him some relief when i do have a steady relationhip so i won't become attach to him.
(although if i do get into a relationship, i doubt very much i'll see him)
so in terms of what i think our relationship is in the future if it does have a long-term longivity...
i think until he's ready to settle down, he'll be my rebound guy between relationships.
although preferably, i want us to do away the sex and just be friends in the long term, but that's a bit too late i think.