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原帖由 chefung 於 2009-7-7 07:12 PM 發表
If the intensity is very low, it doesn't hurt us or have negative impact
It doesn't care right?
Also, if during the time, one may 看開 and then that memory is no longer having negative impact on us
if that past tense is of low intensity, to me, it just means that youget used to it or better phrase, you live with it ... it doesn't meanyou don't care nor it stops hurting you
true that if you ever get over that stumbling block, the bad memory itself won't bring you any nightmares any more ... though i still believe it'd remain forever in the corner somewhere in your mind, soul and if you are provoked (not really a good word but can't think of any good one) it will pop uo out of the blue anyway ... it's a learning curve for all the poor ones
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Time won't heal, I agree unless something is done
But one, the victim, will overcome the pain with time though.
with time ... this wording is better ...
time itself won't help much ...