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原帖由 wannabe 於 2009-6-17 11:39 AM 發表
we have discussed both senarios
and our conclusion to the latter case is mama/papa has lived a long life and experienced much ... s/he would want her kid, which is me to be happy in life no matte ...
They want you to be happy
How about you?
They are dead and I don't care about their feelings after they are dead (cant care)
But the problem is myself, I won't be sad if my parents are dead naturally
But if they are dead because my choice, that will make me feel guilty much more than the loss of my SO.
Of course, having SO with kids is another story...too much conditions