Unless Leona was raised in Western society

In western culture, it's more 博愛 like
In chinese culture, it's totally 偏愛
From the priority of 五倫, you can briefly understand how this works for us for 2000 years

not related to the discussion, i jus remind him

finally i hv sth i know, i learned in highschool

I said, I am not going to label them

But if you think, "A is good friend, B is best friend, C is a hi-bye friend" is the labelling you mean, that I admit, I do label friends

Do you label your family?
That is my dad. That is my mom. That is my sibling....
Those things constraint your behavior in front of them already

This extends to friend too, in a loosely related way

will u willing to teach her, n help her to be success

maybe i talk to much,
you can check the story of my wording, you will know more what i am talking about

Anyway, don't want to argue anymore as Leona response is not that positive to me

I try to conclude

Leona point : Accept friends. Do the best to them. They are pretty much the same to her. Not much difference/preference.

Cherry point : Accept friends. They are friends, but with different degree ( how closed we are ). Some are definitely closer than the others (like hi-bye friend).  She does have preference, and even in a strong way.
People sharing more common interests/values are likely to be good friends than those who share less.

The main argument here probably is "preference or not"

Your talking style is like a monk...LOL

u shouldn't conclude leona's point, she should do it by herself

[ 本帖最後由 mugen-purin 於 2009-6-5 12:31 AM 編輯 ]

may i know where is your wording?u mean the conversation u made tonite with cherry?