wide? i think it is not appropriate to describe them

i don't think so,
it is many part of your life, you may not have same thinking ppl in all parts,
but i am sure that you can find same thinking ppl in some part of your life

y u guys target leona tonite:smile_47: did i miss sth?

doesn't mean u r not alone, u can talk the game with your manu. fans/frds, but u can still being lonely when u back home:smile_38:

Here, I am going to quantify the "good" level of friends
You say all people can be good friends

But, for me, I do try to distinguish those good friends into a finer scale.
Are some better than the others to you?
Then why?
Sharing more common interests?

yes,
do you know the meaning of
有容乃大

Nah, I like to argue...or discuss

I just can't agree with Leona's point, not totally although some of his reasons are good but don't make his argument valid to me probably

why alone, at least, i have many friends in here

tai chi is soft, u can't beat him with hardly:smile_42:

海納百川,有容奶大
壁立千仞,無肉則剛 XD. that's to MM and Bebe

But the point is
That's Passive

You accept others <> you and they are good friends

You know a murderer/raper released from prison. You can accept him but you think you can be good friends with them? I am not trying to labelling criminal but just want to exaggerate my point.

Accepting is the first step
better friends need effort from both sides

[ 本帖最後由 chefung 於 2009-6-5 12:09 AM 編輯 ]