I am after smart/strong girl

then iz C the girl for u?

I don't quite care what R and S are recently LOL
In fact, even S and I were closed classmates, I don't quite like his personalities ( probably I am jealous of how much he is smarter than I am , but mostly he is a bit arrogant. Oh well, he is good enough to be arrogant ).

R and I, there is a story behind too but sorry I am not gonna share it here. Pretty personal. LOL. What I can say is , that was a mistake due to my immature behavior back to college year 1. Oh well, I was totally socially stupid. She was pretty innocent.

For me, it's pretty strange
Initial orientation is really important
As I regarded and still regard she is my best friend, I have never thought about other possibilities and remain the best friend bond. LOL

So do most of the friends.

Here I have a small question
Do guys really matter how much his girlfriend earn more than him?

C is earning at least 30k+ probably? Havn't asked her but she paid 10k to her mom for normal expense and some k to his dad for pocket money. Oh well...

Good choice for soft rice

[ 本帖最後由 chefung 於 2009-5-21 10:16 AM 編輯 ]

dun ever ever close the door on any possible relationships..best frds can turn into a couple..just like how two strangers can turn into a couple all of a sudden..the only fear..i say iz that if u guys dun work out, u lose a best frd..n this iz a risk some would take, some would not take..

now the second one, the women in our society today r so smart that iz bound to see some of them earn more money than their counterpart, I think wat iz most important to women iz that they wnt to c improvement from their other hlf..like not settling for wat they hv now, like if the guy earns $1 now, the girl wnts to c him take action to earn $2 next year, $3 next next yr..etc..

[ 本帖最後由 mikan85 於 2009-5-21 10:28 AM 編輯 ]

If I open the "possibilities", then no any other female friends are "pure friends" to you
Everyone, mostly, are friends with potential.

I hate things like that. It makes me feel weird in a friendship
It happened once to me before and I just hated that.

not all yr female frds r possibilities..unless u happened to like evyone of them..u just need to find one potential target..n the other u can keep as frds, buddies, watevr...

how so?

If I meet a girl friend, and then I think, oh well, she is just a friend.
Miki said : Wait, don't block the possibilities.

I am confused.

For C, I have known her for 9 years and didn't have a bit of thought that she has/had potential. LOL
Isn't that feeling clear enough to shut down the door now? LOL

i mean..obviously..u cant go after a girl u dun like..
but how do u kno the girl u meet next wun be the rite one? so first, frds for now, but dun say, she cant be the one cuz im already frd with her..sth like that..

fine..then slam the door shut with C..:smile_38:

u kissed R?:smile_04: