~~~ breaking news ~~~
OMG! I almost had a heart seizure and fell off the chair when i read the following thread:
http://www28.188channel.com/viewthread.php?tid=9642826&extra=page%3D2
lazy had a girlfriend, although it's on the brink of a breakup
indeed, i feel sorry for him but at the same time i feel like i've been fooled
man, you can't really claim yourself as a tram-boy if you are in a relationship
stop bullshiting people with your over-the-top "i can't deal with the opposite sex", "i am old and alone" etc remarks
you have absoluate right not to mention a single word of your private life
but if you choose to do so, you goto know you have to own your words and take responsibility
as i recall you told us right here in this thread you couldn't move on because you still had your last SO who was died 15 yrs ago or so in your deep heart, eh?
now i know it was just a load of bullshit. Busted!
i guess i should have constantly reminded myself of the #1 game rule in this virtual world - everyone is wearing mask behined the screen and dishonesty is the best policy
how suck! learnt lesson and taken to the heart and end of rage ...
anyway my advice to you is (my guts feeling tells me lazy is watching us somewhere): take your time to let yourself feel sad and feel the loss of your relationship ... but accept where's you are - she's out of your life now and you are a free man! If needed, repeat after me "she loves him more than me, she is a slut and i should move on to better things" ... I know it is easier said than done but trust me, you will get better as time passes by ... please don't lose hope and faith! *hugz*