pretty fucked up, no?

well, depends
if you want to have babies, yes
if not, and you don't really care, hm, maybe not

if its true, that's most certainly is a deal breaker...

that's why sex BEFORE marriage is important...

comeback home

well, i was shamefully cheating on my bf also.. maybe that's why our little "fling".. ok.. it doesn't even deserve that word.. our one night thing feels safe because we're both attached. ~.~

but i guess there is a difference in men and women afterall.. i went home crying regretting and told my bf everything.. he went home and went back to being his perfect husband and pretend nothing happened. ~.~  

or maybe some people are craved to be good cheaters and some are not. 

exactly ... i always thot if he could bring up the issues with me earlier instead of hiding in his mind, our story would look different
perhaps my bad ... i should lead him to talk with me anyway

too experienced in handling their fantasy
i work in an environment where a lot of my co-workers are married
honestly, i appreciate their honesty
in the corporate world, people do whatever to get them to the top

yea, in ideal case...
my problem is i don't even trust myself...

maybe you should come home with your sister.... you know, use up some of those 50 days annual leave... and you can chill with us in hk until i go back to mapleland next month. 

90% is a lie ... tat was exactly one of those lies my ex- told the gal
birds of a feather flock together