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原帖由 mikan85 於 2009-4-3 11:32 AM 發表 
the rosey example..we'll skip that..cuz i wish her well..
but oki..the bitch example..how do u kno that the girl..who iz seemingly a bitch to evyone else...
but once she enters into a relationship..becomes a sheep..
if u were not to try that..u wouldnt knew it...u would just continue to assume she iz a bitch..
my point iz..hving the list iz oki..but dun restrict urself because of it..
i haven't read back enough, so i have no clue what you guys are talking about completely (have an idea about finding ideal partner...?)
I think for me and my bf, we are quite ideal for each other. In fact, I do not think a second guy can easily give me happiness, it's just him. I went through some psychological tremor as a kid and was only aware of how it affect me after he and i became friends and he tried to help me out of it as we became a couple... and he also has his own issues that only the root became apparent after we were together and we try to fix.
For that reason alone, I somehow believe we are tied by destiny. Two people, born and raise in 2 such different culture in 2 corners of the world end up being the two people to untie emotional and psychological knots for each other held for decades. Is there another name to call this other than "fate" and "destiny".
