It's not about throwing out or not
It's you to deny the existence of that list

Will you find a black girl to be your gf ? ( no offense here, want to make a argument )

If you do, then you are cool. You are consistent with what you said

If you don't, then "Non-black" is in your list
People do have preference ! and you just don't want to say it out

You think saying out that you have a list will have a negative image
but to be honest with yourselves, do you have such a list?

I am just honest to myself and to you all, I do have preference and I list them down in a list.

omg, how can someone be so brave...? :smile_19:

rmb to list that in ur resume next time..

my bf refused the idea of marriage or kids when we just got together...

but i think when you really love somebody, your mindset change. ^^

i think i am better than u, no worry:smile_30:

i wonder if u will ever feel desperate..

any hot guy is fine

There is a risk point here.
You two have already knowm something may not work out
(e.g. marriage/kid issue, religion issue, nationality issue, career conflict, long distance issure, etc)
You two got together and try to sort that out under the power of love
If things go well, congratulation
If not, I am sorry

28a juz like a washing board

True.
I am kind of in "no desire" stage

Should go to temple to be a monk