mm... yeah, toward the last couple years, it has been quite difficult.

The university standard for 3rd and 4th year is 20-40 pages per course per semester for humanity courses... so everything adds up.  Not hundredS of pages, but definitely around 100 each semester of reseach paper per semester

Extra curricular... mm... they do exist.. but if you have time outside of school, i think you'd prefer to do something NOT school related. haha. 

we were in one of those rooms-thing... not study room, since I studied film, so I was in one of those private screening rooms... ~.~

so you did not join any extra curricular activities in uni?
it is quite boring to watch film+write coursework all the time><
if i were you, i would not be able to withstand it><
i join many clubs now XD

I also joined many clubs, but I had not much time to go to the events after first year. hahaha.

which activities did you join most?

lots of clubs, haha... newspaper club, debate club, radio club, ski club, drama club... :p

[quote]原帖由 blue_rosey 於 2009-3-5 06:21 PM 發表


... the guilt afterward is not worth the pleasure during...


I thought the same after the first time I was being unfaithful.  I didn't want to hold my girl's hand as I thought I was too dirty.
But a few times later, pleasure overrode the guilty feeling.

i wonder if everyone feels the same way when the first cheat on their bf/gf.

But anyhow, in honour to complete honesty to our relationship, I end up telling my boyfriend this morning, he then broke up with me the millisecond after (wow, can't believer there's no hesitation whatsoever).  

sometimes a lie can hold a relationship forever

if u can keep this in your heart and doesnt feel guity

Yeah, some people are capable of cheating, some people not.

I am in flavour of honesty no matter what, and I really love how my boyfriend and I have no secret between each other.  We have dated for 2 years, and we already started having secrets -- I cannot accept that, and I cannot accept it more that I am the one who broke the cycle-of-truth -- if only I thought about all these before I went to do something stupid.   

Maybe it's naive, because in 10 years, or 20 years, we are bound to have secrets between each other; only when the relationship is new and we are young that we can keep such an idealistic, honest relationship, but I really wish to prolong the kind of honest and open relationship we have.

I think I am the type who can never cheat on my partner ever.  :smile_39: