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原帖由 blue_rosey 於 2009-3-4 11:56 AM 發表
i haven't had anal before, but i am opened to the idea... i always feel better when my boyfriend finger me from behind (or I do it to myself)...
But my boyfriend and i kept postponing trying it c ...
Hi blue_rosey,
Thank for your reply. It is good to hear that you are open to that idea. Your bf is a lucky guy. Do you know he also likes having anal sex and he really wants to try it with you? If YES and he just doesnt want to hurt you, then this problem can be easily resolved. Anal sex and anal play are two completely different things. You enjoy anal play. It doesnt mean you are ready to have anal sex. It is true that you may get hurt if he doesnt know how to do it right and you have not yet been well prepared. Besides the fact that he doesnt want to hurt you, I think your bf should also be worry about if you had a bad 1st time anal sex experience, you may hate anal sex forever and you dont want to try it again. I think he wants to wait for the right time to do it. A woman's 1st time anal experience is very very important.
Are you ok when he puts more than one finger in your ass? Before having anal sex, you have to start to train up yourself starting from small to large. one finger, then...two fingers,...Once you get used to it, you can try something bigger like a small vibrating egg or a vibrator similar but smaller to his size. step by step...Since you are mentally well prepared and you enjoy anal play, most importantly, you are willing to try it, I can tell you that you already succeed 50%. The rest of the problem is just a technical problem at all.