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原帖由 chefung 於 2009-1-18 07:48 PM 發表 
I have a friend organizing some mass dating dinner for singles.
It earns a lot.
BTW, please list the definition/criteria of "quality" guys XD
I know we all want to know
OK. I don't think I have particular requirements. I am not picky, it's just my fds said I am... LOL:smile_34:
To easier explain - there's two categories of criteria
1.
Core - meaning it must be satisified
- Kind-hearted person: I m too wicked... need someone who can bear with me:smile_40:
- Similar views of life - very important if not I can't communicate with him
- Loyalty - not joke, this is not negotiable :smile_22:
- Stable job - well i don't think I have to explain it, hard working should be inherited in our culture
- 5'9 or above - I do mean it, I am 5'6 and you can't ask a shoes person to throw away all her beautiful heels right?
- Little sense of humor - not too much if not they are too 口花花
- Non-smoker - sorry I am allergic to smoke
2.
Bonus - with these, he makes the picture more beautiful, or i'll say they are catalysts in our "chemistry"
- Handsome - really not necessary, as far as you are not 八襾金, 正常人就可以, but i don't mind eye candies:smile_27:
- Well paid job - again not core, I am still innocent to think happiness weighs higher than money
- Working in similar but not identical job - hard to explain but i don't like dating with co-workers who works in the same department. If i have a little knowledge of what he does, I can share his load (mentally at least)
- Similar hobbies - I do almost all sports and am very willing to learn whatever he likes. shouldn't be a problem
- Do not cook - I cook, so why the hack he needs to cook. Also guys who can't cook are usually less picky. but of coz he has to appreciate my cooking
- 有情趣 - he can make me happier but I don't want this apitute be extended to other girls LOL:smile_30:
- A pleasant mother - I understand all guys are somehow attached to their mother and I would never want to make him to be the 夾心人. I want to blend into his family
- Same religion - well, I should have preached and directed to my religion. But if he can't do it, I believe it's God's plan. At least he can't be against it
- Able to blend into my family - I have a kinda big family, he needs to adjust
Well, at the end of the day
these are all ideal scenerio. i know i'm not going to have someone who's satisfiy everythig 100%
just let it be... i'll start to worry when i reach 30... then i maybe more desparate LOL
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